Laugh

One of the things I look forward to the most every morning is getting up and checking out some of my favorite comedy/parody accounts on Twitter. Funny people such as @shitmydadsays, @jesus_m_christ, and @sexcigarsbooze are just a few of the great accounts to follow. These talented people have turned Twitter into something more. For some, it’s just another comedic outlet. For others, it sparks a once-in-a-lifetime experience. But when all is said and done, these people have sought out interaction with us over Twitter. In their case, that interaction creates a bright spot in our day.
I’ve drawn a parallel with these online characters with my interactions on Twitter. Instead of sitting behind my computer, I’ve decided to go out and “live my digital life”. For the past year or so, since ramping up the blog once again, I’ve been taking to the city of Birmingham, Atlanta, Chatanooga, Mobile, Nashville, etc and done my best to interact with those who’ve I’ve met online (NOTE: I took many precautions before meeting people in person. You should as well).
Interacting with people online and in person can be awkward and awesome, all at the same time. If you’re reading this, I’m pretty sure you’ve experienced this. Recognizing people in public by their Twitter avatar is one of those things. You hear a random comment, glance at the person, and realize that you read that same thing that morning from the person’s account. You say their username, cautiously, then when they turn their head you introduce yourself by your username. That moment when it dawns on both of you, you let out a slight laugh and a big smile. Then you awkwardly end the conversation and go on with your life.
But for that moment, you realize just how powerful Twitter can be. You understand how tweeting from the dinner table at Buffalo Wild Wings, using a hashtag at a concert, or simply checking your feed during lunch to discover a tweetup that evening, though seemingly un-interactive, creates chance and planned encounters with virtual friends. By taking those virtual relationships and making them real, real things start happening.
For instance, @tammyhart got together with several of her friends to celebrate her birthday with dinner and a movie. Though not everyone could come to both, no one who came had, to my knowledge, had known Tammy for more than a year. And all of us had met in some form or fashion thru Twitter. If you had walked up to the table, you wouldn’t have been able to tell, though. We talked, laughed, interacted as if we had all been friends for years. It was an incredible experience.
Something similar happened just a few months ago with the poker league to which I belong. In this case, the offer to participate in a points poker league came over Facebook and Twitter from @garrett98. Fellow Twitter personalities like @ikepigott, @rebecca_morrow, @spencerwyatt and others played poker for hours, like old friends who had been laughing together for decades.
My point is this: Laughter should remind us of the community that we’re building. While we’re all building our communities for different reasons, we should make sure we take the time to remember that sometimes there’s more to this than we expect. In my case, the more is establishing relationships that have provided me with awesome opportunities.
What’s your more?

A quick word of thanks…

I just wanted to take a minute to thank friends, family, associates, and cohorts. This past month or so has been a very challenging experience. It’s forced me to disconnect and take a step back and re-evaluate the what and why of life, both personally and professionally. While I want to assure everyone that everything [...]

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Learn

Knowledge is a valuable commodity. Don’t believe me? Take a look at some late night TV sometime. The latest fad diet craze, that new exercise phenomenon, or music that makes you smarter, You’ll find tons of people pedaling their ideas, thoughts, and opinions for $29.95 (shipping and handling extra). Willing to go even further? Head [...]

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Share

Most people in this world judge a person by the number of fans and followers they have. It’s a sad fact in life. I even find myself, more often than not, evaluating a person of Twitter’s worth not by the number of followers, but my the ratio of followers to followings a person has. Why [...]

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Listen

[Writer’s Note: I’m changing the order of the last 5 rules. That’s how I roll.] Let me start by saying that this is the subject I’m probably the least qualified to talk about. And I’ll probably end up telling the longest, seemingly off subject story for this one. But bear with me. After all, I [...]

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Be brief

I distinctly remember in my tenth grade grammar class our teacher talked about deadwood. Well, not actually the teacher talking about it, but the example that was given. Every morning, we would come into class and given a task to complete that related to the day’s lesson. That day’s lesson was Deadwood, which is simply [...]

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Be interesting

I promise there is someone out there in the Twitterverse who is actually interested in something you have to say. I know it sounds crazy. After all, what kind of ego does one have to have to think that anyone out there sees any value in what they would have to say. But I find [...]

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Be yourself

I’m going into fanboy mode. Why? Because you can’t talk about being yourself without talking about people who are doing just that, being themselves. Take Gary V for instance. Gary is a guy who will give it to you like he sees it. I was driving up to Social Fresh Nashville back in January while [...]

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Be humane

No, we’re not talking about saving puppies (Sorry, @DOGingham). Today we talk about being kind to others. Not just on Twitter but online, in general. People go online to find things. Whether, they are doing a casual search, playing flash games, or looking to connect with others. They just want a new experience. For our [...]

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Be human

Ever wonder why reality TV is so popular? Shows like Jersey Shore, The Real World, and Survivor are popular because people are curious as to what other people are doing, saying, thinking, feeling, and tasting. It’s human nature to be curious. The idea that you may be doing something that I’m not doing is enticing [...]

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